I was always the girl who loved getting dressed up, always the teenager who’d try new makeup trends, always the woman in my 20s who enjoyed taking care of my skin. Then my 40s happened, menopause happened with it, and I started hating my skin because nothing seemed to make it look taken care of. Just dry, crepey and weirdly scaly, no matter what I did. No matter what those skincare ads told me to do.
No one around me ever told me that mature skin required specific care. I think it’s mostly because the beauty industry doesn’t treat us like a different group. It sells us the same things we used in our 20s and 30s, with different marketing, different packaging, and different gimmicks.
And then life happens. You get older. Your skin changes. And one day you realize your skincare has to grow up with you.
I’m not 20 anymore. I don’t want to be 20 anymore. My 40s deserve what my 40s deserve.
But the beauty industry seems obsessed with convincing us otherwise. Every lotion and topical cream wants to “anti-age” us, reverse something, erase something, make us look younger. As if aging is the burden.
And lotion, for me, became part of that problem.
I kept putting it on because that’s what women are told to do when their skin gets dry. When my skin started looking more crepey, I used more. When it stopped feeling as firm, I bought a “firming” lotion. When that didn’t do enough, I bought another one.
It was always another lotion.
And so many conventional lotions can be mostly water. They can make your skin feel moisturized when you first put them on, but I kept finding myself back in the same place, reaching for more. I wasn’t questioning the lotion. I was questioning my skin.
That’s what bothers me now. I don’t know a single woman over 40 who genuinely wants to wake up looking 20 again. Aging can be so beautiful.
It’s aging without wellness that we actually fear deep down. Looking dry, tired, crepey, and uncared for. Watching our skin change while the products we’ve trusted for years suddenly don’t feel like enough.
I didn’t want to reverse my age. I wanted to look well at my age.
And that’s when I finally stopped blaming my skin and started questioning the lotion I had been putting on my body for 30 years.
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We always treat the skin below our chin like the stepchild of skincare. As if body skin is somehow not supposed to be part of skincare. We will spend so much time and money on our face, and then give the rest of our skin some cheap lotion we found at the drugstore because it smells good. I did that for years.
And I literally watched the skin on my body start to look completely different from the skin on my face. It was drier, crepier, looser, and the reason was sitting on my nightstand. I spent over 10 years of my life not knowing that mature skin was meant to be cared for differently. I would throw on whatever lotion I could find easily, make sure it smelled nice, and call it body care.
It is not the nicest feeling realizing you trusted a drugstore product for years, only to find out you did not even know what was in it. Especially when the label was RIGHT THERE. RIGHT THERE.
I remember the exact day I actually turned my lotion around and read it. I was on vacation with a friend who had already done this before me. She saw me putting on my lotion and literally said, “Turn that thing around.” So I did.
Aqua. Water, in layman’s terms. And man, that hurt.
Not because water itself is bad. But because I had spent years thinking I was buying rich skincare for my body. My skin was getting older, drier and looser, and I kept applying more lotion because I thought my skin was the problem. I never once stopped to ask what I was actually putting on it.
That was the scary part. I knew what was in my face serum. I knew what was in my face mask. I would research ingredients before putting them anywhere near my face. But the lotion I had been rubbing all over my arms, stomach, chest and legs for years? I had no idea. And the label had been right there the entire time.
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How I Found Besque?
I read a lot, I’ll be honest, because this was one thing I wanted to pass on right. I wanted my daughters to know what to do when they were my age. So I did the whole research. If lotion wasn’t what my changing skin needed, then what was? I couldn’t exactly leave it without hydration.
The more I read, the more one word kept coming up: nourishment. My legs were drier than ANYTHING. My chest was showing changes earlier than I expected. And I realized I didn’t need another product trying to “anti-age” me. I wanted my skin to be nourished and healthy as it aged.
We read food labels, check ingredients and try to eat better. And yet, I had never thought this hard about what I was putting all over my skin every day. So “nourishment,” “natural” and “healthy-looking skin” became my keywords. And that’s how I found Besque.
By this point I was skeptical of EVERYTHING. I thought it was probably another oil pretending to be all natural and nice. I had been burnt before.
Now I love it so much, I have both the scented and unscented. And for once, I’m glad I was proven wrong.
How To Choose Between The Scented & Unscented?
Two oils, same nourishment & the choice of scent.
I didn’t want another 10-step routine. I wanted something simple enough that I would actually use it every day. That’s what I love about having both versions of Magic Body Oil. I can reach for the Original when I want that beautiful botanical scent, and the Unscented when I want to layer the oil with my perfume. Two different blends, both made to nourish dry, changing, mature skin.
- Sweet Almond:smoothens & deeply hydrates
- Evening Primrose:firms & increases elasticity
- Rosehip:regenerates & plumps skin
- Vitamin E:protects the skin from sun light
- Geranium:tightens & revitalises
- Lavender:calms inflammation whilst promoting healing
- Patchouli:boost natural collagen production & smooths skin
Unscented Magic Body Oil
- Sweet Almond: smoothens and deeply hydrates
- Evening Primrose: firms and helps increase elasticity
- Rosehip: regenerates and plumps skin
- Vitamin E:protect's the skin from sun light
No water. No fillers. Just concentrated oils for dry, crepey-looking, changing skin.
And right now, you don’t have to choose between the two. Besque is putting the Unscented for FREE when you order the Scented oil for the first order. So you can decide which one to order next.
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Here’s what finally made it click for me. Water molecules are tiny, but our skin barrier is designed to control water movement. So when you put water-heavy skincare on the surface, that water can give you an immediate feeling of hydration, but it can also evaporate back into the air
Oils behave differently. Our skin barrier is naturally rich in lipids, so plant oils can sit within and alongside that lipid barrier, helping soften the skin and slow down moisture loss. That explained SO much to me. Lotion gave me moisture, but I kept needing more of it. Oil helped me understand that mature skin doesn’t just need water put on top of it. It needs help holding onto the moisture it already has.
That’s when oil started making a lot more sense!
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Why Besque Is The Only Body Care I Keep In My Bathroom Now?
Once I started reading labels, it became very hard to go back. Besque wasn’t just another “natural” product with a pretty label. The more I looked into what was actually inside, the more it made sense to me.
1. It’s botanical: I wanted my body care to feel closer to nature and simpler than the products I had used for years. Besque is built around botanical oils instead of a water as a base.
2. It’s vegan: Ethics matter to me. I care about what goes on my skin, but I also care about how the products I buy are made.
3. The oils are cold-pressed: This mattered more once I understood it. Cold-pressing avoids the high heat used in some extraction methods, helping preserve more of the oils’ naturally occurring nutrients.
4. The formula is made with natural oils: No water. No fillers. No artificial fragrance. After years of buying products with ingredient lists I barely looked at, the simplicity felt like a relief.
5. The combination actually feels thought through: Sweet almond, evening primrose, rosehip, vitamin E, geranium, lavender and patchouli. It isn’t one trendy oil thrown into a bottle for marketing. Each one has a reason for being there.
That’s why Besque slowly replaced the random lotions and body products sitting in my bathroom. I finally knew what I was putting on my skin.
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I didn’t have to talk about any of this. But then I joined communities online; I looked at my friends, my sisters, women my age, and realized how many of us have been led to believe that mature skin doesn’t need anything different. That skin is skin, and the same lotion we used at 25 should somehow still be enough at 45, 55 or 65.
And I believe that needs to change. The idea that we have to keep chasing beauty standards set by an industry that constantly tells us to look younger does not sit right with me. There is a whole community of women out there, perimenopausal, menopausal and postmenopausal women, wondering why their skin suddenly feels drier, looks crepier or just doesn’t respond to what they’ve always used.
That feeling of not knowing what you’re doing wrong is the worst part. Because I know it. I spent years thinking it was me.
I don’t want more women feeling that way. I want us to stop blaming our skin, start questioning what we’ve been told to put on it, and finally give mature skin the care it deserves.
The best part? They’ve taken away the pressure of choosing between the two Body Oils before you even know which one you’ll love. And I think that says a lot about the thought that Besque puts into everything. They didn’t just think about the formula. They thought about the woman buying it for the first time too. Because how are you supposed to know if you’re a Scented or Unscented person without actually living with both?
So, you buy the Original Scented Body Oil, and they automatically add the Unscented to your first order for FREE. You get to try both on your own skin, at the COST OF ONE in your own routine, and decide which one feels like you.
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